Sunday, December 6, 2015

Christmas 2015

2015 was a very different year for us.  Of course the end of 2014 was not like others either.  Dec. 10, 2014 we got the call that I, Chris, had breast cancer.  On Dec. 10, 2015 I had a mammogram and got the news that it was clear!  What a blessing and a great Christmas present to us!  Then there was the in between...  As I look back over the year I see so many blessings.  God was so good through my journey and will continue to bless us as we finish this fight.  I started chemo on Dec. 23, 2014.  I had 8 weeks of two kinds of chemo and then 12 weeks of two others.  I am now down to a maintenance chemo which I get every 3 weeks until March 2016.  I won’t say chemo was a piece of cake but I got through it and felt so loved, blessed and cared for.  I had 2 stays in the hospital with neutropenic fevers.  I had to stay away from people so Mark, Katie and medical people were my social life.  God gave me contentment and soon it was over.  I finished the main chemo in May. In June I had a lumpectomy and then July and August consisted of daily trips to radiation. I am still not back to normal and might just need to find my new normal but try to face what comes.  I never thought I could have done it but I am so grateful to have a God that loves me enough to care for me and carry me through. 
As for the rest of our lives, I was able to do the weekend are the women’s prison in Pierre, SD at the end of August.  I can’t say I was really up for it or that it was physically good for me but I am so glad I could do it.  Those ladies need a little light in their darkness.
For the first time Mark had to skip the Texas mission trip.  The timing did not work out well with where I was with my treatments.  He felt he was needed here.  We both plan to go next year. 
Katie is in nursing school at the local community college.  She is excited to begin her clinicals after break.  She is still working at the Christian retirement home and now she works at a nursing home too.  She keeps very busy between school, work and her boyfriend, Joel.  I feel she is growing up and slipping away (I know it is supposed to be that way.) so that I don’t get to see her so much.  She was great during my cancer though and we shared some very special times together.
I hope this letter finds you well.  I know that is not the case for some of you and I am praying that you will find the peace with God that I found on my journey.  We are looking forward to a different year this year but hope it is filled with just as many blessings as this one was.  Merry Christmas to all of you!  
Mark, Chris and Katie
p.s. If you would like to read more about my cancer journey find it here:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/387236641450545/